It’s Playtime! A Sexpert’s Advice for the Best Role Play Ideas

November 17, 2019 Relationships, Sex Tips
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It takes a lot to keep a good relationship alive. Some of that work might need to take place in the bedroom. If you’re looking to spice things up, role-playing might be the exact right way to do that.

Bringing your personal fantasies into life, as well as those of your partner, can be really exciting. It totally revitalizes your life in the bedroom: it’s even good for you. There are a lot of role play ideas out there. It doesn’t have to be as simple or as cliche as the tropes you are probably used to hearing about.

Need some ideas of how to integrate role play into your sex life? Read on and we’ll walk you through a few easy ones to try out.

Bring Out Your Own Fantasies

Role-playing can be exciting because it provides a safe environment for you to act out fantasies you might not have been able to experience for yourself. Always had a thing for older men? Have your partner pretend to be one. Had a big crush on your teacher at school? That one’s easy, too.

No matter how vanilla or out-there your fantasy might be, role-playing in the bedroom can be a safe and comfortable way to explore it. You just need to take the time to become open with the other person in your relationship about what ideas and scenarios turn you on.

This can take some time and might be difficult for people who are not used to opening up in this way. But it can be really rewarding when you do and fun for both parties involved.

Go Out Into The Real World

Sometimes getting out of the house can make role-playing a lot more interactive and exciting. What if you were role-playing as two strangers that meet at a bar? Why not go to an actual bar to ‘discover’ one another and flirt?

It may sound silly at first, but drinking and flirting with one another in public can create a kind of adrenaline rush in your relationship that you may not have experienced in some time.

You get used to your bedroom and the comfort it provides, so taking advantage of new environments can make things exciting in a fresh way.

Integrate Costumes

Role-playing is also the perfect time to get away from yourself. You don’t want to have to be yourself all the time, and often it’s easier to feel sexier and more turned on as someone else entirely.

Changing your look with a costume can be an amazing way to do that. Getting your first costume might feel strange at first, but it can be an exciting way to open new doorways to sexual possibilities.

You might be surprised at what you’re willing to do when you’re ‘not yourself!’ If you always had fun on Halloween but want to make that fun last year-round, this can be the perfect idea for you.

Role Play Ideas To Spice Things Up With

If you need to spice things up in the bedroom, the above role play ideas can help to get things going fast.

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