How to Touch the Clit: Different Moves and Positions (So She Can Have the Ultimate Orgasm!)

October 4, 2019 Sex Tips
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Did you know that 37 percent of women say they require clitoral stimulation to experience orgasm? More surprising, only 18 percent of women say they can climax with vaginal penetration exclusively.

However, whether you’re a guy or a girl, it’s not always easy to know how to give pleasure to your sexual partner through clitoris stimulation.

If you’re clueless about how to touch a clit, you’re certainly not alone. Check out our tips below to learn the moves and positions which can give her the ultimate orgasm.

Woman on Top

The woman on top is a fantastic and simple method of giving her an orgasm.

The man should lay down on your back with your legs either side of the woman.

The woman should be on the top facing you while putting her weight on her knees. Face each other and hold eye contact for an intense moment.

Once the penis (or dildo) is inserted into the vagina, the woman can then start by gently rocking back and forth.

But, instead of vaginal penetration, if she prefers, she can assume a circular grinding motion.

In this position, the clitoris can be stimulated by the rubbing up and down against another body. If she experiences friction, apply some lube to her clit to allow for a gliding motion.

If the woman wants greater intensity, you can place your thumb on the upper pelvis. This can be used to grind up against as well.

Continue to face each other while one of you reaches down to gently stimulate the clit with your hand. When you’re both ready, the penis (or dildo) can penetrate the vagina.

If you’re a man near to ejaculation, your penis can then be pulled out, to be rested on her belly while the clit is rubbed up and down it. For optimal pleasure, men can wear a vibrating cock ring for this position as well.

The Lotus Position

The lotus is a classic Karma Sutra sex position which brings a lot of sexual ecstasies.

If you’re searching for an orgasm during the winter, this one can make you feel really cozy together.

You sit cross-legged while she straddles her legs around you. Then, she gradually lowers herself guiding the penis (or dildo) inside her.

You can embrace each other with your arms at this point. While you may be used to thrusting backward and forwards, you both need to grind against each other to rub the clit against the lower abdomen.

Reverse Cowgirl

What’s the most overrated sex position?

When a survey asked women this question, they overwhelmingly said reverse cowgirl. In fact, around 39 percent of women say that it simply doesn’t do it for them!

But, if it’s done with clitoris stimulation in mind, the woman may feel differently about it.

You need to lay down on your back while she climbs on top again. But this time, she’s facing the opposite direction toward your feet.

As she sits down on top of you, she guides the penis (or dildo) inside her. It may require lube again since reverse cowgirl can be a more awkward angle.

From the reverse cowgirl position, either of you can reach down toward the clit to rub it gently. Be careful when you go to touch her clit, she may prefer you to concentrate on the hood not her actually clit.

You can also use a vibrator to provide greater stimulation.

If she’s too shy to look at you in the eyes while touching herself, then this is a perfect position. But of course, nobody should be embarrassed about knowing how to pleasure themselves.

Sideways Saddle

You need to lay down on your back with one knee lifted while the woman climbs over with one leg either side.

You can insert the penis (or dildo) into the vagina at this 90-degree angle. Or, she can simply grind down your inner thigh.

If she often enjoys rubbing herself against things, then she’s going to love the feel of your flesh on her clit.

On the Kitchen Counter

Do you enjoy leaving the bedroom to have sex somewhere else more exciting? Around 48 percent of couples have sex in the kitchen.

Sex on the kitchen counter is also great for clitoris stimulation. You can also use a table or ledge as long as it reaches the pelvis.

You need to stand up straight and penetrate the vagina. So, she lifts her legs up with her ankles resting on your shoulders.

She can then touch her clit with her hands. You should also be able to reach to stimulate her clit while allowing her to lean back to enjoy it.

Doggy Style on the Couch

Over 96 percent of couples have had sex in the living room. It’s actually the most popular place in the home outside of the bedroom to have sex.

You may have enjoyed doggy style already together. But, have you experimented with doggy style over the couch?

She needs to kneel on the couch over the armrest, while you bend over and enter her vagina from behind.

Due to the freedom afforded to her by the couch arms, she is free to pleasure herself with her hands. You can also use a sex toy while you’re doing her from behind.

Touch the Clit

Don’t be shy.

It’s not always easy to know how to pleasure each other during sex. Everyone woman likes her clit touched in a different way. You need to communicate with each other about your sexual desires.

Do you want to spice things up in your relationship? But, you don’t know how? You’ve come to right the right place. Check out our blog for tips and tricks here.