Nope, You’re Not a Freak! 5 Common Sexual Fantasies and What They Mean

October 18, 2020 Sex Tips
Sexual Fantasies

Few things are more complex than human sexuality. There’s no way to predict what your partner will like but there are some sexual fantasies that are far more widespread than others.

Are you worries your sexual fantasies are going too far? Fear not.

Here are 5 very common sexual fantasies and their meaning.

1. Group Sex

One of the most common sexual fantasies is group sex or sex involving more than one partner. People often fantasize about threesomes where the same sex or a second opposite-sex partner is added to the equation.

This can happen regardless of how you identify sexually. It’s perfectly normal to have this fantasy where you are the center of attention and desirable to everyone around you.

This fantasy explores the erotic pleasure of being the center of attention and having multiple areas on your body stimulated at once. Desired the same or opposite gender could relate more to what that gender represents instead of your normal sexual identity.

For example, if you fantasize about more gentle sensual stimulation, you might still envision a woman as part of your fantasy even if you’re a gay man.  

2. Rough Sex

There are many reasons people have rough sex or rape fantasies. It doesn’t mean you have a desire for it to happen in real life.

The true fantasy in this situation is about power. Feeling dominated is a turn on for many people who are typically in control in real life.

Rough sex has an animalistic quality to it that provides feelings of letting go or unleashing a hidden part of you that has to remain caged most of the time.

3. Public Sex

There isn’t anything wrong with the idea of public sex. Sexual fantasies commonly include having sex in usual places like a mountain top or on the beach.

The adventure of having sex in a public place makes it appealing. You might be discovered and get into trouble.

This is a thrill for some people especially if they aren’t used to breaking rules. You can look at this site if your desire for public sex is also combined with a little voyeurism.

4. Passion

Cookie-cutter romance isn’t just for the movies. Some people imagine themselves staring deep into the eyes of another person over a candlelit dinner as a form of foreplay.

This fantasy signals your need for a deep connection with another person.  In this fantasy, the focus is completely on you in a loving and passionate way. 

5. Gender Bending Sexual Fantasies

One of the most common reasons you might feel your sexual fantasies aren’t normal is because you imagine yourself or your partner in different gender roles. This is shocking for a partner who might not share the same ideas.

But when both parties agree, this can be a thrill seeing the other person dress up in a way that’s taboo for their gender role. It’s a thrill to break the rules where no one can stop you. 

The Best Sexual Fantasies

The best sexual fantasies give you thrills that envelope you physically, emotionally, and mentally. Sometimes these fantasies never make it into real life and simply provide amazing visuals during your regular sex life.

The choice is up to you and a consenting partner to decide how far you want to go. For more information and tips, visit our blog for updates.