Straight to Third Base: 7 Ways to Make a Woman Want to Have Sex With You
Humans need sex. That’s why you hear so many friends say things about people needing to get laid if they are being grumpy.
There’s nothing shameful about needing sex. It can be a problem if you aren’t in a relationship. Casual sex can be great, but you have to learn how to get a woman to have sex with you.
Continue reading this article, and we will give you the best tips for getting a woman to want you sexually.
1. Let Her Know You’re Sexually Attracted
While it might be nice if a woman could read your mind, that’s not how it works. You have to let her know you’re sexually attracted to her.
You being attracted to her might be enough to make her want to explore some alone time together. The thought of someone being attracted to your body often will create a spark that leads to the flame needed to get things going in the bedroom.
You might find her extremely attractive, but she might not think she is attractive. Even the sexiest women have things about themselves they hate and think you’ll find unsexy.
Give them plenty of compliments. Get them comfortable with being around you and opening up to you.
2. Build Sexual Tension
You do want to let the woman know you are sexually attracted to her, but you also want to create tension. If there is no sexual tension and it seems like you’re coming on to her over and over again—no good.
You build sexual tension by letting her want you without giving it to her. You have to be careful since, if you reject a woman, she will take it personally and will put a wall up.
You can do things like joking and flirting to build tension. Make sure you never say anything along the lines of you being too good or hot for her since that is likely to backfire.
Let the tension keep growing until she can’t keep her hands off you. While it is okay for you to initiate sex, you should let her make some of the first moves like touching your hand or brushing back your hair.
3. Put Some Electricity into Your Touch
Touch can be a very powerful stimulus. You don’t want to use your touch in a creepy way. If you creep a woman out, she is going to run the other direction, and she is going to tell her friends what a creep you are.
You don’t have to do a lot to turn a woman on with your touch. Give her a firm handshake when you meet her. Give her a soft yet firm hug when you’re parting ways if you’re friends with her.
You can tell her that you’re in a hugging mood if you don’t usually hug. When you hug her, let her know that you liked it and tell her that she feels nice.
4. Watch How You Say Things
If you’re reading tip books and magazines for what to say to women, a big part of it is the delivery. If you say something you see in a magazine but you deliver it in a creepy way, you’re going to get the opposite result you were hoping for.
You might be trying to figure out how to let a girl know you think they are attractive. If you say the first thing that comes to your head, it might not be very G rated. Most women don’t like men to hit them with the dirty talking first.
Slow down, compliment her without being dirty, and work your way up as she responds positively.
5. Don’t Be Selfish
When you’re trying to hook up with someone, you have to keep in mind that there are two people in this hookup. You have to show you’re going to be a generous partner, or she is likely to pick someone that is going to be more giving.
6. Don’t Abbreviate Your Texts
If you’re sexting, you should never abbreviate your texts. It’s too easy to make a typo that could ruin the whole exchange.
BJ could turn into OJ and look like you are excited about her giving you a glass of orange juice. Take the extra time to type it out or use voice to text to get the message across if your hands are busy and you can’t type.
When she reads the full words, it is going to have a more positive effect on her and make her want you more than seeing you type out “I want ur bod.”
7. Consider a Brothel
If you really need sex and you can’t wait, one of the best options is going to brothels. You’ll be able to get the sex you need when you need it without having to do a lot of work.
Going to a brothel will allow you to pick any type of woman you want. You’re also likely to be more open about some of the kinks you have, so you can get the type of sex you want.
How to Get a Woman to Have Sex With You – Now You Know
Now you know how to get a woman to have sex with you. You’ll be able to go out and get sex when you want it or need it without getting frustrated.
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