Top 6 Sexual Things You Can Do to Mix It up in the Bedroom

March 9, 2021 Sex Tips
Mix It up in the Bedroom

It’s no secret that this past year added significant stress to a lot of our lives, and our sex drives have suffered as a result. Time to reignite the fire with some not safe for work tips.

Check out some sexy ways to reignite your sex life!

A healthy sex life is an important part of your relationship intimacy. There are lots of great ways to reignite the passion in your sex life.

Choosing which way you’d want to try is half the fun! 

1. Do A Fun Activity Together!

While this doesn’t seem sexual, it is a great way to build desire. After you’ve been together for a while, it’s easy to fall into the same routine and similar date nights.

Trying something new together like rock climbing or a cooking class is a great way to refocus on each other.  

2. Indulge Your Fantasies 

There is something so tantalizing about catching someone’s eyes from across the room and building anticipation. It gives the freeing feeling of being uninhibited sexually. 

Spend time kissing, connecting, and erotically exploring each other’s bodies. This is a great way to focus on the present without stressing about what you have to do next. Add in feathers, silk ties, or even massage oils for extra stimulation.

3. Literally, Get A Room

While switching up the positions is great, try switching up the scenery too! When we get comfortable with our sex routine, it can lose some of its lusters.

Try booking a cute Airbnb or hotel to switch up the scenery. 

Switching up locations can add excitement thanks to the different textures, sounds, lights, and thrills. Plus, who doesn’t want room service post-sex?

4. Touch Yourself

Relieve the pressure and lean into your pleasure.  Masturbation is a great way to hit all your sweet spots to get you ready to go.

Take your time and focus on what you like. It will add to both your pleasure and build excitement.

Bonus: your partner will love the view!

5. Find Your New Favorite Sex Toy

Don’t feel intimidated when it comes to toys. They are a great way to increase arousal and help you climax. Knowing what you like is a great way to help your partner give you pleasurable orgasms.

There are plenty to choose from that pulse, penetrate, or can even be remotely controlled.

This makes for a fun thing your partner can do- even in public. You can find one for every desire, and discover which one you like is the best part. 

6. Play Fun Sex Games 

There are so many fun ways to add some spice to your sex life, especially with sex games. Try buying oral dice or sexy cards to try something new.

You could even challenge yourself to 30 days of sex positions and enjoy working your way through the Karma Sutra. Some of the best sex games out there require a bit of imagination and a lot of playfulness.

Have fun with it!

Seek Out Your Pleasure! 

If you feel like your sex life is starting to get stagnant, it’s time to try something new! Adding a bit of mystery, taboo, and anticipation can be the best thing to spice up a long-term relationship. 

Talk about what you’d like to try and playfully commit. Whether you add a new toy, role-play scenario, or switch up the scenery, you’ll have fun along the way.

Check out some of our other blogs on all things sex-related to get you in the mood!